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90 Day Fiancé (Nicole and Azan #29) – Therapist Reacts – Tell All



Dr. Kirk Honda, couples therapist, reacts to 90 Day Fiancé – Nicole and Azan. Includes clips from 90 Day Fiancé Season 5.

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    No you are correct Dr. Honda! I believe Azan is pronounced Uhsan! It's annoying because Azin sounds like an American mistake.
    That mom is So annoying!

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Regardless of Nicole's behavior and how she comes across and whether or not she should be with Azan and if he's scamming her or not — I absolutely hated how they ganged up on her. The other couples feeling like they have something to say ? that's a joke. The older lady bringing up the visa thing — I mean hey grandma, why wouldnt you have compassion for the young lady, whether or not its her fault, its not you goddamn business and if you genuinely care then you should probably not put her down in lieue of empathy.

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Please react to the spin off! I didn’t even know they had one. It’d also be super interesting if you react to Anfisa and Jorge on 90 day as well!

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    You keep calling Nicoles mother “grandmother” 🙃

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Do you really read all those books behind you?

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Don’t stop doc! Nicole and Hassn drama continues! Even more drama

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    By the way, you are wrong. Having her call him “Daddy” will have an effect on her.

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    These are hard for me to watch because I can relate to Nicole so much and the void of a relationship with my parents now.

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Omg how can Andrei criticize Azan he is literally sugar baby of Chuck

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    18:55 I have the same thought every time they have a tell all.

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Azaaaaaaaannnn

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    wasn’t nicole alone on another reunion special? seems like a pattern

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    KEEP ON GOING DOC!! Love the videos!! 🙂

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    PS- More Smothered PLEASE and Love After Lockup!!

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Even though not a big fan of Nicole, I noticed this too when I watched this episode. I'd feel so hurt and betrayed if my mother brought up my past like that on national television. I get the concern of having May calling men "Daddy." But that's a conversation for private or with a therapist, not where the whole world can see it. My mom wouldn't do that, but if she did, it would cause a VERY deep rift in our relationship.

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    18:56 doc calling Libby a rando is priceless

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    I cant believe how often you upload. It's amazing. Loving this series.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    So tired of these young women who change "daddies" like dance partners. The poor, poor children.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    I have to admit, I started out like, "I cannot STAND Nicole." Now, watching this series, I'm starting to see the nuances and feel a lot more empathy for her. Thanks, Dr. Kirk! I find this series so calming and helpful.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    His name is actually Hasan. It’s an Arabic name that I’m familiar with and I’ve heard all of his family calling him that. Just so you know

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    In a perfect world, Dr. Honda would be part of all the Tell Alls so that people like Sean won't let abusive behavior slide, as she usually does.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Azan isn’t at the tell all because he LOATHES Nicole. There were stories about him trying to get to other countries by using other women in the same way. Korea, I think, and Russia maybe? Maybe someone else remembers.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Boy… mom airing the dirty laundry. Why is she included in this?!?! Let Nicole be on there alone and speak for herself!

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Counter-transference: so do you have to separate your own feelings, thoughts, and opinions, from how you'd assist as a therapist? 🤔

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    nah Doc you have been saying it correctly, they are mispronouncing his name. They Americanized it lol

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Dr Honda, not only did Azan not turn up for the 'tell all' he actually ghosted her and ignored all her calls, texts, emails for 3 days before the 'tell all' too. He suddenly turns up again as soon as they finish filming the 'tell all'.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    I have to respectfully disagree with your opinion on the mom trying to shame Nicole on national television! Nicole makes ridiculous choices that affect more than just herself. Nicoles mom is just wanting her to be honest with how she behaves in regards to Azan in hopes of maybe Nicole listening to someone else since she clearly doesn’t listen to anyone in her family! Seems like you are making excuses for Nicole’s behavior.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    She wants to live on a dream. Her mom shouldn't support her financially. Nor should she sponsor her boyfriend.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Yes, there's another season with Nicole and Azan

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Dr. Kirk What’s your problem with the grandma? It seems like you attack her in all the episodes. I don’t see Nicole’s child’s father helping or in the picture. Grandma has given up her life and made sacrifices for Nicole and her daughter. Grandma has been there since the beginning and has been a second parent to Nicole’s daughter. Maybe Nicole should stop being so selfish and always thinking about her needs and wants and grow up. Raise your daughter and be thankful that you have a mother who loves you enough to be there for you. Not everyone is that lucky. Maybe therapy instead of dating, just a situation. Until she works on her issues she will just bring her issues from one relationship to another.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    you were pronouncing it right the first time lol . He’s named after the Islamic call to prayer and you pronounced it perfectly

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Don't worry about the pronounciation. His name in Arabic is pronounced Hasan. So very different from everything lol. You're doing very good don't feel terrible!!

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    I would love you to react to the musical "Falsettos"! Thanks for all you do to analyze this! I love your videos.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Something I REALLY don’t agree with you on Dr. Honda is that you keep saying “it’s Nicole’s choice,” but you fail to mention what Nicole’s “choices” do to her daughter. Her daughter isn’t some doll Nicole can drag around everywhere and bulldoze over, she’s a HUMAN BEING of her own who Nicole seems to take ZERO interest in as far as decision making unless it benefits herself. It’s always what Nicole wants when she wants it. When do we ever see her actually ASK her daughter what SHE wants or thinks?

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    The journey with Nicole should have been done after the first season period. Know we know that she's just paying him to be with her so their's really not a relationship of fiance period.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Colt and Larissa please!

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    You’re the only reason I open up my YouTube app

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Well, everyone is pronouncing his name incorrectly especially the host. its supposed to be pronounced with a heavy “d” sound instead of the z, but you pronounce the “d” the way “th” sound is made. So the tip of your tongue should be touching the back of your front teeth when saying Adhan or Adaan.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    I would like to see you do reaction to Molly and Luis from that season and were one of the couples in this tell all

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Pleases react to COLT!!

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    Very sad to observe Nicole’s mother’s behavior…

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    YES ! you've been mispronouncing the whole time ! i also gave you a head's up in the VERY first video about this pronunciation, but i don't think you read the comments so

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    I think the mother said at the end after seeing the abusive fight that she'd be there for Azan if he came over like they will be for her because they saw how badly Nicole was treating him physically and he didn't do anything back other than try to avoid the fight and escalation. Maybe now she realizes they do need to be there for him because her daughter might really cause him harm.

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    added on 22 Sep, 2020
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    I think that you have always said his name correctly

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