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90 Day Fiancé – (Paul and Karine #11) – Prison – Therapist Reacts



Dr. Kirk Honda, couples therapist, reacts to Paul and Karine. Includes clips from 90 Day Fiancé, Before the 90 Days season 2.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    the statement the mother says about living in the present is very common in brazil

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    "I'd never lay hands on a woman, or an animal," idk just an interesting sentence

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    I love how others cultures take their words seriously. I feel like if her dad says the sky is falling, we should take shelter lol

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Resting Dissociated Face

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    im autistic and knew paul was after watching for a couple seasons. reading thru these comments has confirmed what I thought thag ppl always think we’re lying/being deceptive😪 but we cant ever be ourselves either. we cant win

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    I love the shirt!!! YES!!!

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    14:06 To me, Paul has Resting Apathy Face.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Dr Honda every video: "The internet likes to say sociopath." lmao

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    As someone diagnosed with autism, I do relate to a lot of things about Paul such as the "resting blank face" and having stilted emotional responses. Him receiving hostility in his childhood is common for autistic people too, since we're often bullied. Even some of the comments about him seeming artificial and fake, I've gotten those comments about myself as well (which hurts). "Mildly" autistic people try to blend in but there's often something subtly different about our expressions, so it doesn't seem natural to the rest of the world and tends to make others uncomfortable and not trust us. Like you said, obviously it's hard to tell if someone is autistic but I see some traits in him from the small amount of info the show gives us.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Ge burned his own property and insurance fraud are related bro. He did the arson for the insurance money then lied about it. Insurance fraud for burning his own place down intentionally. Questions answered.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Paul has "resting "huh" face", it comes off as aloof, like he's waiting to hear the real news.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    I have the resting blank face, and I only realised it was because of bullying a few years ago.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    That shhhhiiirt, yaasss. I deserve that shirt. I really REALLY do xD

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Paul is shifty & unreliable. Bet on it.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    I think Paul's mother and maybe his father treated him pretty terribly,,she makes horrible comments to him on the show pretty frequently,,I realize Paul is not perfect at all and possibly a horribly human being but still no child deserves to be abused and I bet he was treated horribly

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Pause 5:48, take away all circumstances, that is the genuine smiles of real parents who actually love and want the best for their daughter. 🙏🏼😢❤️ Oh what I wouldn’t give! ‘Let’s live in the present because the future belongs to God.’ ✝️🙏🏼💕

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Star trek font!

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Aw!! This man is so cute 😘

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    I wish i could suppress my crying response. How do i learn at 40? I was raised in a family of women and went to an all-girls school and I guess I never learned. the fact that I burst into tears and sobs at the drop of a hat has actually become socially inappropriate and I have lost jobs and relationships over it and made a fool of myself in public dozens of time

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    "Resting blank face" is accurate!! He is CRAZY!!! yes! He is a psychopath! There a police report! Karine is scared for her son and her lives!

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Paul seems insecure, with very low self-esteem but controlling. I think he sought out a girl from a less developed country to boost his ego and so he could put her in a position where she is isolated, can’t speak the language, and is totally dependent on him, and therefore more easily controlled. He seems so emotionally fragile that I wouldn’t be surprised if he became violent if he felt his set up was being threatened.

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    To me he is mildly autistic… feels bad for him… well, I hope he is doing better now…

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    Paul could have autism or asperger?
    or both ?

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    doctor kirk!!! thank you for making the world a better place! these videos are so interesting & funny. your commentary has really helped me to examine my own actions & feelings more and have much healthier communications with people. it's so awesome how you teach people to be mindful of their emotions & advocate for mental health overall (:

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    I love that shirt. I just got to remember not to wear it to a job interview 😁

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    kirk doing the fake huge smile was TERRIFYING FHNDTHNDHBVC

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    Maybe the insurance fraud and arson are linked, wasn’t it his own house he set on fire?

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    added on 27 Sep, 2020
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    He seems to have resting anxiety or worried face.

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