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How to Make Long Distance Relationships Work, According to Psychology



In this video, I discuss the psychological research behind long-distance relationships: what makes them work, how many last, and more.

Time Stamps:
0:00 Introduction
1:07 The statistics on long-distance relationships
2:10 Factors of a healthy long-distance relationship
3:24 Questions you should ask yourself before entering a long-distance relationship
5:40 Advice for those already in a long-distance relationship

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References:
Dargie, E., Blair, K. L., Goldfinger, C., & Pukall, C. F. (2015). Go Long! Predictors of positive relationship Outcomes in long-distance dating relationships. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 41, 181-202.

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    added on 10 Sep, 2020
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    YALL military couples are a whole other struggle 🙁

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    added on 12 Sep, 2020
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    In ldr for 4 years and never meet, doesn't work. Wasting time

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    added on 15 Sep, 2020
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    I can't visit my partner. He is like, on the other side of the country oof. But I love him, and I also feel his love for me. When we get into fights, after a maximum of an hour later, we already fixed it HAHAHAHHAA.

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    added on 15 Sep, 2020
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    Germany <> New Zealand for 13 months now. I can only dream of just below twice a month haha. I wanted to visit twice a year, but alas, Covid has the borders shut. Haven't seen her in 9 months, and probably won't be in the near future. It's hard.

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    added on 15 Sep, 2020
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    This video came at the right time

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    added on 16 Sep, 2020
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    My boyfriend is from Korea, and I’m Canadian, I met him 4 months ago, and we started dating 14 days ago… I’m hoping we’ll last a long time and meet

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    added on 16 Sep, 2020
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    Great info and btw you're pretty! ❤🖐

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    added on 16 Sep, 2020
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    Take a shot everytime she says relationship

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    added on 18 Sep, 2020
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    Im currently in a long distance relationship you helped me so much

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    added on 18 Sep, 2020
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    My Girlfriend lived in méxico and I live in Holland and we are in long distance relationship almost 2 years , Trust,Communication and Commitment are the keys to make it work in LDR…🙏🏽

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    added on 18 Sep, 2020
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    I knew mine for a year. We've never visited each other. He was about to visit but Covid and quarantine hit.

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    added on 19 Sep, 2020
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    Don't waste your one and only life on someone half a world away when there are probably thousands of eligible partners less than a 30 mins drive away

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    added on 20 Sep, 2020
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    that's blac,k cat i have seen behind u so cute😘😘can u send it to me through the phone pliz madam?

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    added on 20 Sep, 2020
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    Focus: Cat

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    added on 20 Sep, 2020
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    I'm in LDR for 2 years now, I'm from Portugal and my boyfriend is from America. Due to the Covid situation we're apart for 7 months now. If you can visit your SO twice a month, you're not in a long distance relationship 😅😁

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Been in a relationship for 4 years and 2 long distance we see eachother once ever 4-6months then for 3 months living together! Going really strong we just make sure that we FaceTime and call more than once a week

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Wow wow love is a beautiful thing . long distance relationship is best it make the love go harder and stronger. Keep the trust and hope strong. This is an Excellent energy I so much love the sweet vibe .. I wanna recover my social media account..
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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    Me and my bf is together for a year now and we haven’t met each other not even once. I will come back to this video when we finally meet 😆😆😆

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    I'm new to this. I mean I'm in an LDR for days now. He is in Trinidad and Tobago and I'm from the Philippines. Meeting up is already on our list. I'm not sure how long our relationship will take but gotta be positive!

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    added on 21 Sep, 2020
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    i cant go see him every month im 15👁️👄👁️ im prolly gonna meet him in two years lol

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    How old are you ?

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    My boyfriend is in China this year because of covid we can’t travel, so it’s been around 7 months since the last time we saw each other. I think everything surrounds being loyal, communication and trustworthy. If you are a very jealous person I think it will be hard for you. It has been the most lovely 7 months for us because we don’t bother each other, if there’s differences we talk about it, before having a long distance we talked about boundaries. Finally you have to have a goal weather it is seen each other in x month or living with each other. In this time knowing when you guys are going to see each other is worthless because of the pandemic but maybe know around when and what goal are you guys looking for. Don’t think because it’s long distance relationship he or she has to do the least, no you both have to do the most and if you guys love each other the most and the greatest it’s ok.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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