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This Is Paris #3 – (Boarding School) – Therapist Reacts



Dr. Kirk Honda reacts to The Real Story of Paris Hilton – This Is Paris. Includes clips from This Is Paris (YouTube).

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    You not being able to take her story as the truth (when the guy is advertising the website and making financial gains while receiving none of the public shame) is a huge part of the problem with women and sex in our society.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    My mom sent me to one of these schools (one of the ones Paris mentions specifically)—I didn't even do anything really bad. I just had too much anxiety as a 12 year old to go to my 10th grade classes with all these 15 and 16 year olds so sometimes I would skip and stay home. I never did drugs, or party, or go out late at night or date or any of that.
    It was the worst experience in my life.
    I know I need help to overcome the trauma this school did to me, but I'm too scared of therapists too ever actually be alone in a room with one.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I was sent away in a similar fashion to Paris, and the way that you describe the effects of this kind of event are totally spot on. It reinforced for me that i was broken and deeply, irreversibly different (worse) than the people around me. I lashed out and self-destructed much worse during the 3 years after I came back.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Love this

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Duuuuude. You release more videos in a day than I can watch!

    …. Nevermind, please keep doing what you do, Dr. Honda! 😸🤗

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I wish you could treat her in teraphy

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Her family seems to have no empathy or understanding for Paris, so sad

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    How can theese c@mps be legal in USA?

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    I can’t believe hiring goons to kidnap your child is legal. I’m not a parent, so I don’t know what a struggle with a difficult teen is like. It’s just disturbing..

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I get the same feeling as MJ problems.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    19.08 hahahha I was like “thank you” that look you had told me “now I get it”
    I can’t stand how her mother says she still didn’t know how Paris was treated in some of those places

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I have no idea why any parent would think of sending their kid away to a wilderness program where they would be at the complete mercy of strangers.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I can't believe her mother said "we spent so much time trying to figure her out and help her", they didn't spend any time trying to figure out what their daughter needed and help her… they spent money getting other people to spend time doing horrible things.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    And you are absolutely great

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Everytime when a woman or girl is violated it's always the woman who bares the shane and the man receives to repercussions for his misdeeds.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    If a man pressures a woman in having s3x, just drop him. If he cared, then he wouldn’t coerce Paris into it. Rick Solomon is a creep.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    So interesting how you already knew the negative outcome of most of those camps before you even watched Paris talking about it! You immediately hit the nail on the head about the family dynamics after those camps.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    He pretty clearly said he did it. He said he has a full color version he put on a website. You can see the pain in her eyes when she talks about it. He betrayed her in the most intimate way. People body shamed her when it came out and commented on her body parts, called her a slut and whore. That is so incredibly traumatizing. I wonder if she was sexually abused earlier in her life. She was surrounded by influential men and other guys who just wanted to be with her sexually and not for who she is. But the nightmares and she doesn’t like men, she’s also been betrayed by men. It’s not surprising to me that she is the way she is.

    I so wish I had a good family therapist when I was rebelling against my abusive parents. My mom was a totally different person to the therapist and was such the victim that the therapist actually felt bad for my mom! Told me I had such a loving caring mom and my lack of empathy for her was a sign of mental illness. I felt so unseen and so I validated that I shunned any help for the longest time. I don’t think any therapist would have been able to convince them that their parenting could be what was causing my behavior issues.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    "Family can't be trusted; people can't be trusted." Yep, that's me.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    💙🙏 bless you for this review .
    Please don’t ever do this to your kids !!
    at 15 I experienced same ,
    Often , I think of the person I could have been if that had never happened . Now 65 & it is sad & enraging to watch , & remember that desolate hopelessness .
    💔

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Anyone else think he was going to say etiquette classes was traumatic when he paused at 11:10 lol

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Her parents set her up, she was the scapegoat of the family . Paris has gone through way more abuse than she is telling . I can feel it

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Dr. Honda you are confusing Paris with Kim Kardashian. Kim and her mom planned and released a sex tape after seeing the media storm that the Paris tape caused.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Paris sister reminds me of katty perry

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I’ve lost all respect for you. Abducting someone is never ok. Actually, it’s against the law and so are these violent rip off artists. And what happens to their education? Where is Child Protective Services?

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    i wanna be friends with Dr. Honda

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Lol we can't sit here an pretend she's helpless or childish i mean yeah shes been thru things so she feels she had to grow up fast so in adult hood it shows. Its just how it goes.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I dont know if you heard about this, but she also had multiple robberies at her old house. They stole a bunch of stuff, so I guess that would also lead her to want protection through the spy cam when people are in the house and she's not right there with them. Even if he wasn't planning on stealing anything, he might want to look through her stuff. Idk I'm not justifying it but I can imagine why she's got this going round in the back of her mind. Great video again btw!
    Edit: I remember now the group who went round stealing from celeb homes including Paris' was called The Bling Ring

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Sorry but Paris needs therapy and a person that can protect her intil she is strong enough to do it herself. If my sister talked like that to me, i would slap her to king Kong dom. None treat her right and they Only act Good with bad excuses to evoid facing their failure to protect. She is used and abused not all abuse is physical.. mental abuse is far worse in my book

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Paris, keep those walls up. And stop working so hard. You should have no handlers. Just a responsible scheduler.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Quick, I need part 4 and 5 now!!!

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Most parents need to stop trying to control their kids to their likening! My father was abusive and controlling, and everything this therapist is saying is true as to what will happen to a child growing up and feeling worthless in life and so on! So, please stop forcing your kids, and connect with them.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    i am so glad to hear you talk about the wilderness therapy camps where teens are sent against their will. how are these kids supposed to start a journey of healing if trust is broken from the start when they are snatched out of their homes and sent against their will to an unknown location?

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I’d love for you to react to the big fight in blac Chyna’s home with her mom Tokyo Toni. I’d love to see what you made of it!

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    As a Psychology graduate I enjoy your videos!

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    She puts cameras in herrr house….. Its sad…. But i think that in time when she sees hes not doing anything…..but if she finds something well….ots hard too find out the person u care about may not have yourbest interest

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    A thing that kinda surprised me about her pics, especially the family picture, is how she is always dressed very maturely and sexy or posing

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    My heart breaks for her. I love paris so much, she's been a very important icon for me since I was about 12-13. She gave me a lot of confidence within myself. I've had so much trauma and abuse in my life so I've always appreciated her as a human. Not just a "dumb blond" influencer kind of bullshit. There is so much more to her. I want her to be happy, get help to be free from her past traumas 💚

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I didn't know they had brothers. It's always been Paris and Nicki in the media

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    At 18, I can understand why she felt pressured to make a tape. At 18 we are not too wise.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Really looking forward to his reaction to what comes next in his part 4, and also how she became "Paris Hilton" after that

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I’ve heard of Seado. But I heard a lot of bad than good from these places. I remember watching as a teen a tv doc on these camps for kids and kids being murdered, sexually assaulted and etc. They apparently hired know sex offenders and abusers from other camps bc there wasn’t any backgrounds done. I totally understand why Paris wants to aid in closing them. In Cali we have lawsuits against the Boy Scouts so there is a shred of truth.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I honestly feel so bad for her. That IS revenge porn and I DO believe Paris.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    Not saying that her mom has narcissistic personality, but…

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I never believed she released it herself. But Kim did it next and I 1000% believe she did it on purpose. No matter what she and her family say about it.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    I live in Europe. I have learned about these boot camps for children and teenagers in the US. I am so happy that this is not done here.
    These camps are traumatizing to the children (who wants their kids to be traumatized?) and it is a human rights violation.
    The parents who do this to their children deserve to be abandoned by their kids.
    But a country that imprisons refugees and separates the children from their parents is probably morally so putrid that teenager boot camps are ok.

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    added on 23 Sep, 2020
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    The next part of the doc goes into even more detail about a certain institution that impacted her decisions, makes it clear where she's coming from. Looking forward to more analysis!

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