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This Is Paris #4 – (Influencer) – Therapist Reacts



Dr. Kirk Honda reacts to The Real Story of Paris Hilton – This Is Paris. Includes clips from This Is Paris (YouTube).

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Cant wait to see your reaction to the next part when she describes the abuse at the camps in detail. Its so unbelievable that places like these exist. I wonder if they took legal action, sounds like she didn't. But they should these places need to be shut down!!

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    How do you find a person who is knowledgeable in trama? What kind of questions would one ask?

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Had it been a different director, Paris may have never told her story. She said originally the documentary was going to be about her business empire but because of how much she trusted the director along the way, that made her want to open up.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    All I can think of is her ex fiancé having having that huge tattoo of her name

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Enjoying this series. Thank you for posting on consecutive days.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    It makes me so hopefull you have an open mind and actually listen to your cliënts, not just simply relying on book-knowledge. Thank you!

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Hi Dr. Honda, would you ever do a video about a vlogger on YouTube?
    There's this girl Amberlyn Reed who was trying to lose weight for years but seems to be gaining and getting much worse health wise. The comment section on her videos is absolutely heartbreaking and I would just love to see someone react to her with the empathy you react to people… I think it might help her to not get attacked all the time.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Yesss I was waiting for part 4. Finished parts 1-3 yesterday

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    You are a beautiful man. Thank you for your time and money and effort. You are a great person. My heart has been heavy and stomach lives in knots. I have spent 38 years getting more and more in destressful state and not understanding what was happening. This is why I love the world wide web. It connects people who have understanding with those who need it.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    therapist without trauma knowledge is like physicians who don't get trained in nutrition.

    in most cases food and lifestyle plays bigger role than genes, without addressing it and offering solutions you're just treating the symptoms. same with therapy; without addressing trauma history, you're just working on the surface. ignoring the actual cause of suffering causes more suffering which creates an endless cycle for patients. no wonder why getting therapy is not people's first choice to get help with emotional distress.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    I have to say I enjoyed these videos about Paris documentary I didn’t plan to see it at first but after watching the previous three videos I saw the actual documentary and I really appreciate you for giving us your professional opinion

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    I don’t mean to this to be judgmental even though it sounds that way.

    I am truly surprised 😮that with all their money they haven’t gotten more therapy and self help.

    Spend the money in college or some other self development.

    Paris dumbed herself down for the world 🌎. I am not impressed. Where was her dad to feed her self esteem?

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    I'm not the expert….. but I that most people who've been traumatized to the extent as Paris would have a lot of rage underneath the baby voice.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    I am loving this series!! Can’t wait for the next post!! It’s so obvious poor Paris is on a mouse wheel from all of her trauma. She needs her family to genuinely love her and they need to attend family therapy together to help her heal.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    You are awesome and I am grateful for your videos. No matter the topic you find the humanity and depth of everyone.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Y’all are sleeping on Bread Knife Incident. They’re 🔥. Look them up and support Dr. Kirk’s music.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    When her mother said "yeah it better you but it was are our way of saving you" she was so indifferent and detach it just disturbing and disgusting.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Damn Dr.Kirk talking about how parents can turn off their love for their child to "save them" really hit some traumas 😔

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Waiting for the next part eagerly

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Im so happy you’re reacting to this, and always love what you have to say! Would love to be one of your clients lol

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Dr. Honda, you should review the movie "Beautiful Boy". It deals with addiction and I wonder what you would have to say based on what the movie portrays.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Would you like to analyze 'anti' Greta? (She didn't give herself that name) would be interesting, like her way of she speaks which words she is using. 😉

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Do a Teal Swan analysis

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    The boyfriends behavior is common is emotionally/mentally abusive relationship. He is acting in a way to purposefully try to sabotage her set yet blames her for his behavior.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    If only every American could get this kind of help…

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    I think it’s cause he is her guess and probably didn’t get there on his own accord.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    “….some of them don’t know that they don’t know about trauma.” Man, if that ain’t the truth! 💯
    Thank you for acknowledging that!
    I get some sort of comfort just watching your channel. It sure is a million time’s better than any therapists office that I’ve ever sat in, and oh how many I have! 😒
    16:1016:13 😂

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    He stopped at the most important part – the interviewer goes on to ask the mom if she knew they put Paris in solitary confinement… She looked shocked and said no. I'm guessing she didn't know about the beatings either. I can't imagine being so disconnected to your own child like that. "Just send them away, they'll fix them." Gross.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    "Many therapists are not specialised in trauma and some of them DON'T KNOW that they don't know about trauma." !!! Such a breath of fresh air! Yes, this is so true! Being trained as an integrative psychotherapist, now looking back, I can't believe how it was even possible to not start my course with at least an introduction to trauma 🙄 I'm so grateful to Dr Gabor Mate, who popularised the subject in the past few years!!💗
    And I definitely learn a lot from your channel. Thank you!! 🌈

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    to me it seems like she is repeating with her boyfriends what's done to her by her parents because that's the only way love was shown to her. when her parents felt threatened by her they used their power over her. she might be finding 'troublesome' man subconsciously to create the same scenario of herself being a 'troubled kid' and her parents controlling her because they 'love' her… it might be the only expression of love she might have learned and got stuck…

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Uff american a and western sociaty is Just totaly creepy. No more value the people are changeable. No respect no Listening, no seen other neds.Only this egocentric materilistic mindset witch make people separete and make lonely. I truly sorry about her. Wish that she can find true realitinship friends partner. But she can change this only her. With a lot of therapy and change mindset. What is really important in our life. We are such a short time ön the earth try to look for the reál value. I wish the best For her!!!

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    🙉 What is the point of Therapy? To get a stranger to form an OPINION about your life?? 🙉

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    Alex is the definition of a guy with mommy issues and insecure.

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    If you had literally watched 2 seconds more of the video, that long speech towards the end would have been answered, jezz! Trying to watch him see this through is like getting a route canal. He makes good points but LOOK AT THE FRIGGING VIDEO, then make your judgements!

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    added on 24 Sep, 2020
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    can you talk about how there isn't access to proper mental health resources due to the U.S. healthcare system? and maybe other methods of getting help. (some people can't afford therapy or meds)

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